My friend Melissa is manifesting her destiny. She is daydreaming about a boy she has yet to meet. She is looking for some awesomeness in a sea of duds. I encouraged her to write a list of all of the attributes she was looking for, all of the qualities that make a mister right in her eyes. She sent me this list. It’s basic and manageable and I think she is well on her way. If you know of a gentleman caller who fits these qualifications and who wants to meet an attractive Blacksican, morenita, shorty with fire. Let me know. And you? What would your list look like?